What is Perfectionism? Do You Know the Signs?

Apr 3, 2026

What is perfectionism? What are the signs? Perfectionism can manifest in a variety of ways. With this, it’s not easily diagnosed into one area. Perfectionism is not a diagnosis in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). However, it shows in symptoms outlined in diagnoses like Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social Anxiety Disorder (Social Phobia), Major Depressive Disorder (MDD), and Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD).

At Reframe Therapy, we’ve noticed it manifest in the following ways:

Graph showing signs of perfectionism- anxiety, depression, ocd

 

Description: Signs of Perfectionism. Not all individuals who experience perfectionism will struggle in all these areas; similarly, having one or some of these symptoms does not mean you struggle with perfectionism. 

 

At its core, perfectionism is a lens of how you see yourself and others. Antony, Egan, Shafran, and Wade (2014) stated perfectionists are,

      “People who set extremely high standards for performance, are very concerned 

       over making mistakes, and base self-evaluation on how well these standards are

       met.”

And Dyer (2024) added perfectionism is,

      “How we feel about ourselves when we don’t meet our standards or when we

       make mistakes.” ​

Do you relate?

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Sources:

Antony, M. M., Egan, S. J., Shafran, R., & Wade, T. D. (2014). Cognitive-behavioral treatment of perfectionism. The Guilford Press.

Dyer, J. (2024, December). Are Latter-day Saints perfectionists? BYU Studies Quarterly. https://byustudies.byu.edu/article/are-latter-day-saints-perfectionists

About the Author

Reframe Therapy helps high-achieving individuals move past perfectionism, anxiety, and self-criticism through a values-driven, collaborative approach. The practice offers in-person sessions in Provo, Lehi, and Spanish Fork, Utah, plus telehealth throughout Utah and Idaho. Reframe therapists specialize in areas like OCD, trauma, ADHD, and relationships to help clients create lasting, meaningful change.

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